You will quickly notice most of my blogs will be about Elianna.
Like I said she is my everything !!
Like I said she is my everything !!
She's a cheeky Lil Monkey too !!
I really wish I had a better cam, lol. But we do alright with the one we do have.
So I have decided to NOT return to work !!
YEA ! ! ! ! ! !I dropped off my "not returning" letters to both my previous jobs this week.
I knew I wasnt going to go back from the time Elianna was about 4 months old.
I can not imagine another person looking after MY daughter.
"I am" not ready to have her left alone without me.
I've decided I'm going to do home daycare.
I think it should be MY right to stay home and raise my child.
I know A Lot of people dont agree with that but I don't care, lol.
I've been told "oh you'll regret not putting her in day care while she's young"
Well I don't care, it's my choice.
Oh and when I say to people "Elianna sleeps in my bed !" HaHa you should hear the reaction.
You swear I was putting her in a cage to sleep. lol Elianna starts in her own crib and if she wakes during the night I put her in my bed with me.
IT WORKS FOR US !!!
It's just her and I, and I do not do well on little sleep. At All !! lol.
I like having her beside me. I love waking up next to her in the morning. And we both usually get a good night sleep.
I knew I wasnt going to go back from the time Elianna was about 4 months old.
I can not imagine another person looking after MY daughter.
"I am" not ready to have her left alone without me.
I've decided I'm going to do home daycare.
I think it should be MY right to stay home and raise my child.
I know A Lot of people dont agree with that but I don't care, lol.
I've been told "oh you'll regret not putting her in day care while she's young"
Well I don't care, it's my choice.
Oh and when I say to people "Elianna sleeps in my bed !" HaHa you should hear the reaction.
You swear I was putting her in a cage to sleep. lol Elianna starts in her own crib and if she wakes during the night I put her in my bed with me.
IT WORKS FOR US !!!
It's just her and I, and I do not do well on little sleep. At All !! lol.
I like having her beside me. I love waking up next to her in the morning. And we both usually get a good night sleep.
So what if Eli is 5 years old and still wants to sleep with her mommy.
They grow so fast that before I know it Elianna will be 15 years old and not want to hang out with her ol' mother.
At least THEN I will be able to look back and know that I didn't miss anything nor will I regret any loss time for cuddling. Even if it happens to be in mommy's bed at 1am. LOL
They grow so fast that before I know it Elianna will be 15 years old and not want to hang out with her ol' mother.
At least THEN I will be able to look back and know that I didn't miss anything nor will I regret any loss time for cuddling. Even if it happens to be in mommy's bed at 1am. LOL
Later
2 comments:
Try not to listen to what others have to say. If you ask me, you are doing the right thing. I am staying home with my baby (and future babies) until they are of age to go to school. It is a choice we have made and we are so happy about it. You children need you and you need them - do what is right for you!
Blessings,
Tammy
I absolutely agree with Tammy. You're doing the right thing. I love being home with my kids, I took jobs now that I'm able to still be home with them... but I'm quickly discovering that its really hard to juggle all of it, and I miss giving my "everything" to my family... I'm slacking. I love that you've decided to stay home and raise Eli, that's fabulous. I missed that with Emma, and I regularly regret that. You won't regret this at all!
Love ya
Vera
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